Later I asked myself if I would have been so shocked if he had read it after all. my immediate impression was no. reading the book would have entitled him to his view. if I had not read a book or say I'd read 20 pages of a book, what would I have said in his place? I'm afraid I might have said no more than "I couldn't get into it, the first 20 pages were horrible."
The interesting thing is, this man is a good man. How then to absorb his boorish comment? Once it was clear he hadn't read the book, I realized my reaction was probably more damning than his opinion. Let the man believe what he believes.
Besides, I had appointments to keep and there are worse evils than being a good man with a rotten affection for sweeping judgments, both his own and mine.